Bondage in the New Year

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Resolve to Be Sexy

The New Year has arrived, and it’s time to put some resolutions into place for 2011. FetishMeUp is just the place to go to be sexier and more daring than ever before! What changes do you want to make to spice things up? There are so many options to make your love life that much better!

Two areas to look at, at least to begin with, are fashion items, and sensual items. Fashion, of course, may refer to clothing you’d wear out to a sexy fetish-themed party, to clothing that you’d wear under your everyday clothes, or to clothing that you’d wear in the bedroom to get you or your lover into the right mood. Sensual items can range from massage oils to vibrators to fuzzy handcuffs. It all depends on what your sexy resolution is!

If you look good, you feel good, so getting some sexy fetish fashion should be at the top of the list! Leather

bustiers and shiny latex catsuits will hug every curve and make your inner sex-kitten purrrr. But now that you look good, it’s time to add some toys to your toy box! Vibrators are wonderful for beginners and experts alike, and the orgasms will make every day a pleasure to begin and a pleasure to end. Add some warming lube to your new toy, and you’ll go through the roof in delight!

Come on over and whisper those hot, erotic resolutions with us!

Anal Sex: Breaking the Taboo

There’s nothing like anal sex, one of the forms of sex that both genders can share experiences with. The sensations are intense, and breaking that taboo can be incredibly thrilling.

The first step in breaking this taboo is to explore your back end yourself. There are a few things you’ll want to do. Cleaning yourself out is a good idea, which you can do in the shower with your fingers and some soap, or with a Fleets enema. For a more in-depth cleanliness, investing in an enema kit is a great idea! The next investment to make is lube. The key to a pleasurable experience with anal sex, with yourself or a partner, is that smooth entry!

When you begin, lube up a finger and just play around the outside of that little rosette. It’s so sensitive, filled with nerve endings, that you can use that to your advantage. When venturing for penetration, start off with a little pressure, on and off, like pushing a button. And each time, go in a bit further. A little discomfort is normal at first,

but real pain means STOP!

Once you’re comfortable using your fingers, it’s time to move onto the toys! There are many options available there, and it all depends on your comfort and creativity. There are anal kits with graduating sizes, which are great for beginners. Once you’re comfortable with that, there are other sorts of anal toys.

To vibrate or not to vibrate, that is the question. Often, vibration can ease the initial discomfort of entry, and many choose those. They are great for extra sensation, and can really drive you up the wall with pleasure. But for longer-term wear, like underneath clothing for an exhibitionist’s delight, the plugs are wonderful! They also are great, when

used in graduated sizes, in preparing for other sorts of play, such as anal sex with your partner.

There’s no rushing into anal, no need for a rush really. Take your time, play with that area of your body, and your lover’s body, and get comfortable with it!

Get Bound, Get Stuffed: Fetishes for Fall

It’s November, and this month is all about the food! Taste and scent are definitely aspects of sensuality, and there is inspiration to be had in the preparation of Thanksgiving! With the help of FetishMeUp.com, turn your lover into your own personal, sensual feast, and both of you will be thankful.

Cotton rope is perfect for trussing up your partner. Whether you tie him or her to the four corners of the bedposts, or in a deliciously exposing hogtie, the idea is to get them hot and ready for action. At this point, it’s time to baste. In somelovely oils of course! Massage them, touch them everywhere, and admire the sheen and the scent of the oil and their reaction to such delicious helplessness.

Once they are all trussed up and lovingly stroked with oil, it’s time to stuff! Ball gags, dildos, vibrators, anal plugs and more! This is a great time to experiment. Go slowly; it takes time to get those juices flowing. But once they are, there is quite a bit of sexy torment to be had with these toys! A double dong can be bent to fill the pussy and the ass at the same time, or a plug alone can be used if you want to fuck her with your cock, tongue or fingers.

In honor of the cooler weather, ice is also a fun toy to play with. Caressed over the skin, or even pushed into her pussy or ass, it’s a fantastic way to play with sensation. Ice cream is also much fun, to apply as well as to lick up! But make sure to cover the bed with sheets to catch the ice cream, and any other sticky fluids, and make cleanup a breeze. On the other hand, if things are a bit too chilly, some lovely warming oil will soothe and titillate all at once. The possibilities are endless in this month of cool weather, food, and sexy opportunities!

Trick Me, Treat Me: Sexiness Post-Halloween w/Bonus Post-Expo Discount Code

Bonus! For those of you who missed the eXXXotica Expo NJ this year, the fun isn’t all over, here’s a 10% off discount code for you to use at FetishMeUp: fetotica2010.

Halloween has always been a fun, somewhat sexy holiday. Full of costumes and candy, it’s a time when we can put on a different face and discover new things about ourselves. Unfortunately, the Halloween fun is over now, costumes put away, candy eaten, and it’s time to get back to reality. Or is it?

Just after All Hallows’ Eve is a terrific time to keep exploring your alternatives in the bedroom. Costumes are encouraged, whether you want to be a sexy cat woman, or a delicious slave girl, a rock god, or a cop in yummy leather pants. There are masks to wear, to encourage thrilling fear and mystery. Surprise your lover into letting the real world fall away, set the stage, and indulge in the fantasy together.


Another part of Halloween is the sweet treats. Lollipops, chocolates of all kinds, spicy cinnamon candies, and sticky candy apples are favorites. Why not include these sweet things in bedroom play? Lollipops are great rewards for the good little student who follows the teacher’s orders, and it’s so fun to watch them being eaten. Chocolate body paint is great to paint words of love and lust on your partner’s body, and then lick them away. Cinnamon flavors are great to inspire wicked tingles in your mouth and other, intimate places. Caramel and honey are sticky, sweet and so much fun to play with! And once you’re done playing lover’s games in the bedroom, you can take your fun into the shower for some wet, slippery fun.

It’s mid-November now. What sorts of games have you played with your lover? Any post-Halloween tricks you would recommend?

Thank You for Joining FetishMeUp @ eXXXotica!

eXXXotica 2010 in New Jersey was a blast, and we’d like to thank everyone who visited us at the FetishMeUp booth. The energy was unbelievable there, and we hope you had a fantastic time. For those who didn’t make it this trip, we really hope to see you for the next eXXXotica Expo in 2011! We got tons of pictures and will put them up on our MySpace and Facebook pages soon.

Until then, come on over here and tell us about what you did at eXXXotica this year! What did you do? What did you get? Learn anything interesting? And who did you meet?

Leave us some comments!